Self development is very important.
Humans grow everyday but unfortunately some people refuse to grow themselves psychologically
There's a popular thing people will tell you when you're trying to attempt something alien to you, for example;
Facing a crowd,
Talking to authority
Facing social challenges e.t.c.
Normally when you prove anxious to people's eyes and tell them your insecurities the most clichéd reply you'll get
"be yourself" or "be who you are and don't fake your behavior" but I find this not good enough especially if you wish to achieve somethings in life.
Instead of "being yourself...." why not "improve yourself"?
Why not try to improve areas that are underdeveloped and will never help you unless you improve them?
You see, humans shouldn't be themselves when their "self" is below average by societal standards for example in the areas of self-confidence and assertiveness.
One need to improve some of these areas if you wish to be taken seriously by the world
Self development is crucial in your growth as a human being.
Now on to "Humility"
There is little to say on Humility because it's the right thing to be, in opposition to Pride
Humility, concisely, is the act of being humble, that means the behavior one engages in that doesn't portray one as arrogant and being "full of themselves".
It has its advantages,
People will respect you,
It brings Respect in regards to your decisions,
You'll discover that it makes you "undefined" when it comes to evaluation
It is a surprise attribute that facinates people to listen to you.
People will listen to your opinions more than an arrogant or pride counterpart,
There are disadvantages of humility as well.
But to me, I feel the biggest one is the problem of being overly underestimated.
Because people don't, won't, and might not know what you're capable of,therefore they'll underestimate your ability since you're not a bragging person who talks about his achievements like a newscaster
So how can you be humble?
It's easy.... Keep your mouth shut about your achievements. Even when people ask you about it.. Tell your achievements as if it's nothing compared to other great feats (because really, it is nothing!) even the real "great" ppl of our time are mostly humble individuals who don't go about bragging about their business, achievements, experience and so on
If you've done some thing, remember someone else has done a lot more... Then maybe you'll be one step closer to being humble
Because no one relishes the ambiance of proud people. Why not be the opposite?
Humans grow everyday but unfortunately some people refuse to grow themselves psychologically
There's a popular thing people will tell you when you're trying to attempt something alien to you, for example;
Facing a crowd,
Talking to authority
Facing social challenges e.t.c.
Normally when you prove anxious to people's eyes and tell them your insecurities the most clichéd reply you'll get
"be yourself" or "be who you are and don't fake your behavior" but I find this not good enough especially if you wish to achieve somethings in life.
Instead of "being yourself...." why not "improve yourself"?
Why not try to improve areas that are underdeveloped and will never help you unless you improve them?
You see, humans shouldn't be themselves when their "self" is below average by societal standards for example in the areas of self-confidence and assertiveness.
One need to improve some of these areas if you wish to be taken seriously by the world
Self development is crucial in your growth as a human being.
Now on to "Humility"
There is little to say on Humility because it's the right thing to be, in opposition to Pride
Humility, concisely, is the act of being humble, that means the behavior one engages in that doesn't portray one as arrogant and being "full of themselves".
It has its advantages,
People will respect you,
It brings Respect in regards to your decisions,
You'll discover that it makes you "undefined" when it comes to evaluation
It is a surprise attribute that facinates people to listen to you.
People will listen to your opinions more than an arrogant or pride counterpart,
There are disadvantages of humility as well.
But to me, I feel the biggest one is the problem of being overly underestimated.
Because people don't, won't, and might not know what you're capable of,therefore they'll underestimate your ability since you're not a bragging person who talks about his achievements like a newscaster
So how can you be humble?
It's easy.... Keep your mouth shut about your achievements. Even when people ask you about it.. Tell your achievements as if it's nothing compared to other great feats (because really, it is nothing!) even the real "great" ppl of our time are mostly humble individuals who don't go about bragging about their business, achievements, experience and so on
If you've done some thing, remember someone else has done a lot more... Then maybe you'll be one step closer to being humble
Because no one relishes the ambiance of proud people. Why not be the opposite?
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